Round 2

So, to continue from last post…the husband sent an in-game mail to our ex-raid leader saying that we were sorry he was upset, but we were not happy with the turn the guild was taking and that we tried to leave in the quietest way possible and to accept that we all had left, respect our decisions and to leave us alone.  None of us expected the ex-raid leader to respond, of course. Now that he had all of the “fail” people out of the guild, nothing could stop them from charging into Icecrown and taking Kingslayer glory.

Until this morning.

I will first type in the ex-raid leader’s letters in whole, then I will respond to them. Keep in mind these were responses to my husband, and not me.

(Mail 1)
“…
You kill me…And furthermore…nothing has been said other than you…for the most part…were responsible for failed raids….you may not like it but it’s the truth…so have fun repeating the first 4 in ICC.”

(Mail 2)
“…Further, logging into Vent under others names leaves me to believe that you folks have issues. You left as did the others due to “A Certain Person” stirring up trouble. You will find it to follow you as she is still with you. As far as negative feelings those are yours to deal with. We have moved on and you folks matter little. In fact we have progressed further without you people here. Good luck to you.”

Ok, here we go.
“You kill me…And furthermore…nothing has been said other than you…for the most part…were responsible for failed raids….you may not like it but it’s the truth”
Keep in mind here with this line he is blaming my husband (Kaz) for failed raids. This is important for a future response.
so have fun repeating the first 4 in ICC.”
Nope, I think we had more than our share of the first 4 while in his guild.

“…Further, logging into Vent under others names leaves me to believe that you folks have issues.”
And going apeshit over people leaving your group in a video game somehow suggests you don’t have issues as well?  I think someone wants to play the Projection Game!
You left as did the others due to “A Certain Person” stirring up trouble.”
Oh who is this horrible mysterious person?
“You will find it to follow you as she is still with you.”
….Me, apparently. I’m the only girl that left his guild.
But wait! I thought he just said in his PREVIOUS letter that Kaz was the one responsible? That’s just more of the ex-raid leader’s inconsistency shining through again! If he can’t even remember from one letter to the next who is actually “responsible” then why should we take his word that it’s the truth?
Not to mention the nerve it takes to tell another guy that his wife stirs up trouble and will only continue to do so.
“As far as negative feelings those are yours to deal with.”
PROJECTION!
There are two possible meanings to this sentence. He is either denying he holds any negative feelings towards us that left (which as shown by these letters is a lie), or he is projecting his own negative feelings onto us and trying to infer that HIS negative feelings are OURS to deal with, or that it’s all our fault that he has negative feelings.
“We have moved on and you folks matter little.”
MORE PROJECTION!
Again, these letters show quite the opposite. If we matter so little, why 2 letters? Why reply at all?
“In fact we have progressed further without you people here.”
ORLY? That’s funny, I don’t see any Kingslayers in their guild. And I distinctly recall our guild clearing the Plague Wing tonight and someone else’s guild didn’t….hmm….
If ignorance is bliss, this guy must be fucking hysterical.

I try hard to not drop names. I will infer or hint at, but rarely do I ever tack down specifics. But this time, as these events have happened, I can not in good conscience let this group continue to drift in the protective cloud of anonymity. I would not let someone treat me or mine like this in real life, and I certainly will NOT let it slide by as it happens in a virtual environment. Again, as I stated in my last entry, this is not an issue with the game itself; I am not raging because I didn’t get a piece of gear or because the patch decimated my classes. This is a matter of the (real life) people and their words and actions. If any of you readers are on the Horde side of Velen-US server, stay far away from the guild PreEminence. This is how the raid leader and the guild leader treat people that leave their guild. These are the lies they tell themselves and others in the guild to make themselves feel better and to vilify the people who have left and are no longer able to voice their own defense. I have not played the game for many years like other people have, but I think most can agree that behaviours like theirs are the sort of thing that ruin the game for anyone.

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